[There's the faintest echo of an echo of emotion in that. He doesn't remember his mother or his father. He has a notion he was never loved. How true it is, he can't say.]
Yes, it can still be abuse even if you ask for it. Abuse isn't limited to something unwanted.
Consider this. You say you have none of these things. You attracted and held my attention nonetheless. I alone wouldn't seek to change you. You told me what you wanted, and I believe you have what it takes to achieve it. You don't believe that yet. We've only just started.
Many of the harder things to cultivate aren't exciting. The excitement comes once you're able to use them to the ends you desire.
Perhaps we should all have an outing. You and Kosem decide what you'd want to do, and we can do it. Make an evening of it. As fancy as you like.
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Date: 2022-07-27 06:40 am (UTC)[There's the faintest echo of an echo of emotion in that. He doesn't remember his mother or his father. He has a notion he was never loved. How true it is, he can't say.]
Yes, it can still be abuse even if you ask for it. Abuse isn't limited to something unwanted.
Consider this. You say you have none of these things. You attracted and held my attention nonetheless. I alone wouldn't seek to change you. You told me what you wanted, and I believe you have what it takes to achieve it. You don't believe that yet. We've only just started.
Many of the harder things to cultivate aren't exciting. The excitement comes once you're able to use them to the ends you desire.
Perhaps we should all have an outing. You and Kosem decide what you'd want to do, and we can do it. Make an evening of it. As fancy as you like.