It doesn't have to be the opera. That's why I suggested deciding together. You're right. She is not dark like us. It's going to take more than darkness to get you where you want to be. I alone would be the worst teacher for the side of it that needs a woman's touch.

If you want to learn how to portray yourself as more refined, she's a better model than I. I know you're frustrated. You want what you want yesterday. Try this outing.

I'll try to think of something suitable for the two of us later that doesn't involve threatening you but that is more exciting than the theatre.