If you behave ugly and rotten, you will be perceived that way.

[It was as harsh as she'd be in this city, but she had reached her limit of simple understanding.]

If you want to be like them and be accepted by them, then you need to learn how to tolerate their insults and disinterest. You have to learn to be less impulsive, less rash and less angry. I have said I'm willing to educate you. Grayson is willing to teach you to maneuver these situations better.

All of it comes down to you. You have to be willing to learn and not see it as an insult.